just being there and creating a healing space is one of the best things you can offer
aromatherapy or sound therapy might be good to incorporate as well

legally, as massage therapists, we cannot offer counseling services of any sort

Have you considered looking a her eating patterns and the types of food that she consumes.

I like to use a mix of lavender and geranium essential oils in a mix of dark sesame, almond, olive carrier- about 2 drops each per small teaspoon and work the feet with it accentuating the the inner ankle ( lymphatic area).and sometimes just a drop of Holy basil for balance. Essential oils, and herbs for that matter, can interfere with prescription medicine, so check that out in advance. And of course just being there. A lot of warming is a technique I use for older people, moving towards the heart. Very rewarding work.

Social connection is a huge component of depression. You can augment your healing offering if you can find a place in your heart that truly appreciates her - and let her feel it! Superficial comments mean little; her dark side will discount these as something you felt obligated to say. But if you can find qualities in her to honestly admire, and recognize these, this will help. As you share the gift of touch, can you (honestly) give her the impression that you look forward to your time with her? Maybe ask for her advice on something? Help her to feel valued and useful? Appreciated?

There is also a strong connection between physical depression and emotional depression. So if you have any influence on her physical activity... Maybe suggest that your work could be most effective if combined with daily walks or some such.

BOTANICALS HELP. BREATHING EXERCISES. SUNSHINE (15 MIN) A DAY DIRECTLY HELPS. AND COLOR THERAPY HELPS TOO.

BLESSINGS,
-ROB